Welcome to
Authentic Vibe Living

I’m Nikki, an eternal optimist, advice‑giver, and midlife woman, wife, and mother who has spent most of her life answering everyone else’s emergencies and is finally putting some of that care and attention back into her own life.

 

For over 25 years, I worked as a dispatcher for police, fire, and EMS, and later in leadership roles for security and emergency communications in healthcare. All of it took place within the walls of communication centers where officers were yelling into radios, alarms were going off, and phones never stopped ringing. Full moons were…a whole thing. Now, at 55, I work half‑time at a large not‑for‑profit hospital and spend the rest of my time building a life that feels calmer, cozier, and more “me” than ever.

 

I live in a suburb of Oshkosh, Wisconsin with my husband Jay and our tiny dog, Quinn. Our two sons are grown and out in the world, and we’re learning this new “empty‑ish nest” season one day at a time. Our neighbors are basically family, our group texts are unhinged, and yes, there are more throw pillows in this house than anyone strictly needs.

 

Why I started Authentic Vibe Living:

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After decades of living in “go mode,” I realized something: women my age are often holding everything together for everyone else…and quietly wondering what their own next chapter is supposed to look like. I’m the friend people come to for advice, a listening ear, or a calm voice when life feels messy. Years in dispatch and hospital communications also gave me a front-row seat to how quickly life can change, and how much simple habits and awareness really matter. I wanted a place to share the same kind of grounded, real-life encouragement (and practical wisdom) I give over coffee, on a patio at sunset, or around a backyard fire. Authentic Vibe Living is that place.

 

What You’ll Find Here:

 

This isn’t a “fix yourself” blog. It’s a “you’re already pretty great, let’s make life feel a little lighter and more fun” blog.

 

You’ll find:

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• Wellness & mindset – gentle, realistic ways to feel lighter in your body and brain, without pretending we’re 25.   

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• Home & surroundings – cozy, lived-in spaces, seasonal decor, and yes, the occasional “I saw it, I wanted it, I bought it” moment.

 

• Travel & experiences – road trips, weekend getaways, and simple adventures that fit real energy levels and real budgets.

 

• Relationships & social life – stories about neighbors, friends, marriage, and raising kids into their own lives.

 

• Everyday peace of mind – practical tips shaped by years in emergency communications, to help you feel prepared, not panicked.

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• Everyday joy – the small rituals, funny moments, and little wins that make this chapter feel rich and worth savoring.

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And yes, there will absolutely be posts about the neighborhood shenanigans, pranks, and legendary characters, they’ll live under my social and relationships stories, right where they belong.

 

How I Hope You Feel Here:

 

I want you to feel a warm exhale the moment you arrive here, knowing you are among women who truly understand the beautiful, complex reality of being in our fifties and beyond. This is your safe space to land, where your experiences are honored and your individual journey is celebrated without judgment, but possibly with that friendly nudge toward the things that bring you peace.

 

You are so welcome here, exactly as you are, as we navigate this transition into a more intentional way of living together. I hope you feel encouraged to reclaim your own time and spirit, finding comfort in the fact that you don’t have to have it all figured out to enjoy the view from where you stand right now.

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 • Share honest stories and encouragement from my own heart to yours.

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 • Remind you that this is a wonderful time to bring more light into your life.

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 • Provide practical wisdom, support, and a steady perspective when you need it most.

 

I hope you feel like you’ve pulled up a chair on the patio, the sun is setting, someone handed you your favorite drink, and there’s nowhere else you have to be. If that sounds good, start with the latest stories on the blog, or join my email list so we can walk this season together.

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— Nikki

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